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Confidence Conversations: Confident Mobile Make-up

Confidence Conversations are brief expert videos to help build and sustain confidence. Fix up your makeup on the move! As a special summer treat for the working women of the Kickass Confidence community, this m...

Get your glam on!

This month’s upcoming Confidence Conversation on Confident Mobile Makeup with Tracilee Messina reminded me of this old gem and the importance of looking good to feel confident! A few pounds and a few stylis...

The Need to Bull-long

I’m mad about Maslow – the 1940’s genius psychologist Abraham Maslow, that is. Thirty years ago, my life changed significantly when I learned about his hierarchy of needs. I realized that everyone has a fun...

Confidence Kicker: Find A Structure

Confidence Kickers – quick & easy ways to boost your own & other people’s confidence. Find A Structure A structure is anything you can visualize or actually touch – such as a rabbit’s fo...

R U a carrot, an egg or a cup of coffee?

Leaving NYC after a 24 hr work trip, I was again reminded how tough it is to exist there.  Its crowded, expensive and dirty.  One needs energy and attitude to deal with it all and perhaps even a bit of indiffer...

You dress like a grandma

60 glowing feedback forms. Even one that noted how much they loved my outfit. But it took only one nameless form to punch my ego. It ironically said I shouldn’t dress like a grandma. Despite my multiple image c...

Confidence Conversations: Confident Fitness

Confidence Conversations are brief expert videos to help build and sustain confidence. They say ‘The heaviest piece of equipment in the whole gym is the front door.’ From the shedding of clothing la...

Could Doesn’t Mean Should

My mom use to say, “remove should for your vocabulary”. It was her way of telling us girls to just do it – stop procrastinating and stop fantasizing without applied action. She was well intended but perhaps...

Confidence Kicker: Remember everyone wants to belong!

Confidence Kickers – quick & easy ways to boost your own & other people’s confidence. Remember everyone wants to belong! To make your networking and all interpersonal situations less scary, ...

Thinking is hard work

If I make this blog too long, you won’t read it. In fact, you’ll probably spend more time deciding if it’s worth the effort than it probably will take you to just read it. We are inherently lazy beasts and ...